Rewrite the story you tell yourself
From Self-Doubt to Self-Worth
I help people shift how
they relate to themselves
So they can stop holding back and start living in a way that actually feels right.
Many of us aren’t living from who we truly are. Instead, we act based on old beliefs, stories we picked up about who we are, what we’re capable of, or what’s “realistic.” Without even noticing, these stories shape everything: how we feel, how we speak, how we dress, how we show up in relationships, and what we believe we deserve deep down.
Maybe you’ve tried to do ‘The work’ yourself - read the books, tried different tools, but still feel stuck in the same patterns. You might know the feeling of holding yourself back, even when you want to say something or take action. Maybe you replay conversations in your mind, worry about what you said, or stay quiet because you’re unsure your ideas are good enough.
If any of this sounds familiar, you’re not alone.
Or perhaps you find yourself people-pleasing to avoid conflict, even when it drains you. You chase approval hoping it’ll make you feel more secure but it never quite sticks. You compare yourself to others and wonder why you don’t seem to measure up. At times, you might feel like you’re moving through life on autopilot, disconnected from what excites or drives you.
Our work together is about shifting that once and for all.
I work with people who are tired of the second-guessing, the smallness, and the quiet voice inside telling them to play safe. Together, we look at how you see yourself; your identity, your self-image and the thoughts and behaviours that keep you stuck in those patterns. Then we rewrite them, so you can step into the confident, calm, and authentic version of you that’s been there all along.This isn’t about fixing what’s “wrong.” It’s about peeling back the layers of fear, pressure, and old stories to connect with who you really are underneath it all.It’s about giving yourself permission to like what you like, be who you want to be, and do what makes you feel truly alive, without caring about the judgments or expectations of others.
I want to help you stop caring what people think and start asking yourself what YOU think.
Because when you stop trying to prove yourself and start trusting yourself everything changes.
You’ll begin to:
- Speak clearly without hesitation or the weight feeling ‘bad’ or ‘mean’
- Feel grounded and calm in situations that used to trigger doubt
- Set boundaries without guilt or fear
- Stop seeking constant approval for your thoughts, ideas and actions and trust your own judgment
- Show up authentically in relationships, at work and with yourself
- Move through life with more energy, purpose, and confidence
If you’re ready to step into a whole new world, I’m ready for you.
Ways to work with me
£325
The Identity Shift — Deep Dive
90-minute session + pre-session questionnaire + 7 days of support £325
Cut through the noise. See yourself clearly. Walk away with a plan that actually works.
From £45
Email Coaching Packages
1/3/5 emails packages available
If you’re feeling insecure or stuck, just want a clear, calm perspective from someone who gets it then drop me an email.
FAQs
I’ve worked with you before — can I book more sessions?
What if I’m not sure which option is right for me?
Will this get uncomfortable? (in a good way)
What does the process actually look like once I sign up?
Do I need to have something “wrong” with me to do this?
How is this different from therapy or other coaching?
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